I know a man who is a vice president in a large retail company. He has a short fuse and "loses it" on a fairly regular basis. Wanna know what pushes his buttons? When he get frustrated because someone on his staff should know something, and doesn't.
I wonder how often that happens in our relationships. Our wives or girlfriends get really frustrated with us when we aren't paying attention, don't remember things or don't know things we should.
So I thought I'd give you a list of things women want us to know. It's not comprehensive. It doesn't cover everything. But here are a few key things to remember:
- When she asks you how she looks, "fine" or "ok" is not the right answer.
- You did something wrong and she seems ok with it....she isn't.
- If she isn't having sex with you - it may not be about you. It could be that she isn't feeling too good about herself.
- If she isn't having sex with you - it may be about you. See if she's feeling disconnected and address what's wrong.
- Intimacy can happen anywhere. Come up behind her and whisper in her ear. She loves that.
- Shoes. Duh. (they're important).
- Giving her oral sex. (See shoes).
- She's an equal part in the relationship. Ask her for her opinion and advice.
- She needs to hear how you feel about her. Express it often.
- Public displays of affection are ok. Hold her hand.
- She's going to remember everything. First dates, everything. Do your best to keep up.
This list could go and on. Start with these few items and see how important they are to her.
Stay in touch -
Mark
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