Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Pay Attention!

Guys, do you want to know something that will really turn on your wife or girlfriend? Pay attention to things she says or shows interest in, then surprise her later by doing something based on that interest.

Let's say she mentions a show that's coming to town. You could ask her on the spot if she wants to go, or you can go get the tickets and surprise her with them.
Pay attention to what she shows interest in while you're out shopping. The next time her birthday rolls around, you'll have a head start on what to get her. And let me just say, getting her a gift because of something she mentioned in passing several months back - is really a good way to impress her with your new skills.

Listen to her. Pay attention to what she says she likes (and dislikes) and act accordingly.

This is a basic building block of your relationship. This skill applies to virtually every aspect of your life. If you listen, pay attention and put it into action - your wow factor will rise like crazy! It applies to gift giving, doing things together, pitching in with help around the house, sex, dining - and on and on the list goes.

It's a great skill to learn. Pay attention...and act on what you learn!

Stay in touch -

Mark

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