Wednesday, March 10, 2010

I Feel Fine

Beatles Week - day 3.

Today I want to focus on the bridge of another Lennon/McCartney classic "I Feel Fine."

"I'm so glad that she's my little girl.
She's so glad, she's telling all the world."


If your wife/girlfriend was telling "all the world" about your relationship, what would she be saying?

Do you ever wonder what women talk about when they get together? Often it’s about us. If she’s talking about how well you treat her, how thoughtful you are and all of the positive ways you impact her life, her friends are going to tell her how jealous they are and how lucky she is. She'll feel good. She’ll be happy, you’ll be happy.

But, imagine the scene if someone else is telling your partner how her husband does all these things for her, and in comparison you just don't measure up. In this scenario it’s your partner thinking someone else is lucky – and she’s jealous. Do you think life will be as good? Not likely. And here’s the worst part - much of the blame falls on you – because treating her right is generally in your control.

Which partner would you rather have, the one who is jealous of how another woman gets treated, or the one who is being told how lucky she is? Which man would you rather be?

Stay in touch -

Mark

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