Feelings for Someone Else?

A woman writes to a relationship forum that her husband has been "back in contact with a woman he used to work with." This has been going on for 18 months.

She found over 500 emails from him to her.

Based on what she found (and what she shared), it doesn't sound like they've had sex. The other woman is married too, and seems to be less interested in the relationship than the man is. He emails her, complimenting her looks, her parenting skills - on and on.

So, the woman writes - "Does my husband have feelings for someone else?"

Duh.

500 emails over 18 months means that he's email her almost every day. And that doesn't count the emails he may have deleted.
In his emails he suggests that she should come visit him at work.
He's constantly praising her and pursuing her.

Lady, your husband has "feelings". Now, whether those feelings are love or lust, I can't tell. But he definitely has his priorities out of whack.

Another sign that this is deep is the duration. He's been carrying this on for 18 months! To me, that goes beyond feelings. This guy is obsessed.

Interesting question: If they haven't had sex, is he cheating?
Short answer: Yes.

Your thoughts?

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Mark