Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Pet Peeves

We all have them. Those little (or big) things that push our buttons, get under our skin and drive us crazy. Here’s a secret guys – SHE has them too. And like it or not – there are certain things about you and your behavior that irk her. And, the more time you spend together and the longer the relationship lasts, chances are you will develop certain habits or traits that will simply irritate the living hell out of the person you love the most.

But not knowing what things irritate her is even worse because it means that you’re not paying attention. And for most of us – you don’t have to read between the lines to figure it out. I don't think it's uncommon for our partners to verbalize it. “STOP! You're driving me crazy!”

If you’ve been told by someone that a certain behavior drives them crazy – and you continue to do it – then you are either worthy of a Bill Engvall “here’s your sign” award, or you just don’t care.

Amazingly, there is something even worse than being clueless to the fact that she is cranky at this very moment because of something you just did. What’s worse is knowing that something gets under her skin and doing it anyhow. Worse still is doing it on purpose – for any reason. You may think it's funny. I think it's abusive.

We'll talk about some common pet peeves tomorrow. But feel free to share yours in the comments section.

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Mark

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