Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Relationship Killer: Complacency

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Each Tuesday I bring you a suggestion on specific things to avoid, in order to keep your relationship out of dangerous water. Today I want to talk about complacency.

After couples have been together for some time, we tend to get very comfortable in each other's space and we lose our edge. We stop worrying about bad habits, don't mind letting out the big farts and burps, and we stopping doing thoughtful things.

Over time we become more like friends than lovers and our intimacy level drops. Sex becomes too familiar and routine, and things start to slide. As a result sex becomes less of a priority and before long we end up as roommates.

This, I believe, is one of most serious issues that couples face. It takes work, commitment, and attention to avoid. Spice things up. Break habits and routines. Get crazy in the sack once in a while and make loving fun.

Stay in touch -

Mark

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