Simple Ways to Show Your Love

Being romantic or affectionate doesn't have to be complicated. In fact, it can be very easy. Here are 10 very easy ways to show her that you love her.

1. Spoil her.
2. As you walk by her, kiss her for no particular reason.
3. Write a note that says "I love you" and put it where she'll find it.
4. Tell her how wonderful she looks.
5. Public displays of affections
6. Be a gentleman, open doors, help her with her coat, etc.
7. Fix her up with a bubble bath.
8. Buy a rose and put it on her pillow.
9. Buy her flowers for no reason.
10.Hold her

This is so easy a caveman could do it.

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Mark

Friday Fun - A cute WHAT?

An elderly couple met for a romp in the broom closet at the nursing home. They undressed and were about to "get busy". The woman decided to warn the man of her heart condition.

"I should tell you, I have acute angina" she said.
The man replied, "that's good because you have the ugliest breasts I ever seen!"

Have a great weekend.

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Mark

Help!

It's Christmas time and stress is high. Thursday on the blog I like to "assign" you things to do or give you reminders of how you can be more romantic.

Today's is easy. This Christmas season, lend her a helping hand. Between work, the kids, shopping, wrapping, getting the house ready, etc, etc, etc....she needs some help.

You....be that help. Go.

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Mark

Sex Survey: Oral and Your "Favorite" Part of Sex

Wednesday is sex day on the blog and lately I've been focusing on sex surveys. I think it's good to know what other people think and feel about sex.

Two VERY interesting results today.

First, it's important to know that nearly 60% of participants in this particular survey were women.

How important is oral sex to your sex life?

42% A nice menu option
34% Essential: It's a dealbreaker
16% I have an oral fixation
5% OK occasionally
2% Not important
1% This mouth will never touch your genitals

92% rated it "favorable" - anything from "nice option" to "I have a fixation".
The survey doesn't differentiate between giving and receiving, so I'm reading these results as going both ways.

Next,

What is the best part of sex?

5. Afterglow
4. The "knowing it's going to happen" before the clothes come off
3. The orgasm
2. Intercourse
1. Foreplay

We can learn from what others have said. Put these 2 results together and learn what's important: Oral and foreplay. You can figure it out from there.
Make her happy guys.

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Mark

Relationship Killer: History

“Stop acting as if life is a rehearsal. Live this day as if it were your last. The past is over and gone. The future is not guaranteed.” ~ Wayne Dyer

Here's something for certain: You cannot change the past. You can work to repair damage and you can change your patterns and behaviors to avoid repeating the past. But that event - it happened. Ok, let's more on and build from here.

But people who live in the past find it impossible to move forward. This can impact a relationship in a number of ways. If one of you compares this relationship to previous ones for example. If you have an ex that reacted a certain way to stress, that doesn't mean your current partner will. If an ex burned you with a certain behavior, you can't carry that into this relationship by expecting the same outcome. This relationship is different, so let it be free from past mistakes.

Another trouble area is bringing up past mistakes from this relationship. I know of a couple who got divorced after being married for about 2 years, because "he yelled at me and made me cry on our honeymoon, and I never got over it." Really?

The past is the past, let's let it rest.

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Mark

Because It's Important to Her (Part 1)

Here are three (of twelve) important qualities for a guy. Why are they important? Because they're important to HER. And...if it's important to her, it should be important to you too.

Reliability – Wow, I could talk about this one all day. Let me sum it up this way. If you say you're going to do something or be somewhere at a specific time - then do it. Be true to your word and follow through. This will insure that she will rely on you for the long haul.

Commitment – Going along with reliability is commitment. Never do anything that may put doubt in her mind about your commitment to her and the relationship. If you're in the relationship for the long haul, then your romantic and sexual focus needs to be on her.

Respect – The Queen of Soul sang it nearly 40 years ago and it's still true today. You have to respect her opinions, position on things, wishes and boundaries. Even if you don't agree with her, you need to show respect.

Deep for a Monday. You can handle it.

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Mark

Women's Technical Support

A woman writes to the Tech Support department:

Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and I noticed a distinct slowdown in overall performance, particularly in the flower and jewelry application, which ran flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.

In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled other critical programs such as Romance 3.5 and Personal Attention 6. It then installed undesirable programs like Money 5.0 and Football 10.1.

Conversation 8.0 no longer runs and House Cleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system.

Note: I have tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix the problem, to no avail.

Please help!



Have a great weekend.

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Mark