This is the one many couples just can't get past...cheating. Even the most staunch and conservative person, who would typically be against divorce, would tell you that if a spouse is unfaithful, it's game over.People who have had it happen to them will tell you that it's a betrayal you will never forget. People who have done it will tell you the relationship was over before the new encounter ever began.
If these things are true, it makes reconciliation all the harder. At this point, all the trust in the relationship is gone, on top of what ever problems were already there.
Here's my advice, if your relationship is on the rocks, seek help. Try to work it out. Keep it simple - just between the two of you. Adding a third person to the mix is a recipe for disaster. If there is someone in the shadows, take them out of the mix. Focus on each other without distractions. Then if, despite your best efforts, things don't work out, at least you know you didn't blow it by falling into someone else's bed. Trust me, this is good advice.
Since tomorrow is "sex day", I'll share the worst two cheating stories I've ever heard.
Stay in touch -
Mark
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