Sex...How Predictable is it?

Over time, sex, like many other things, can become less fantastic - and even routine.
We run the risk of falling into patterns or ruts.
We start out with this, change to that, finish with a particular thing and it becomes as exciting as a junior Olympic gymnastics routine, without the triple flip dismount.

A recent survey of over 1000 people, showed that only 19% of people surveyed said that sex was "not predictable at all".

15% - Extremely predictable.
15% - Very predictable.
17& - Predictable.
26% - Somewhat predictable
19& - Not predictable at all
8% - Declined to answer. (Prudes!)

30% are boring each other to climax.

So what can you do to change things up? I thought you'd never ask.
First, talk to your partner and say that you want to spice things up a little in the sack. Here are some ideas.

1. Intentionally change your pattern. Do things in different order.
2. Add new stuff. Read a book, try some new positions. Try some toys, watch a movie, get creative. Note - only do things that both of you are comfortable with.
3. Change the day/time. Hook up in the middle of the day.
4. Change the location. Do it at work, or in the car or in the kitchen or something. Anything so that it isn't predictable.
5. Add some romance. Find/make a nice CD or playlist, light some candles and take it from there.

Spice things up and make loving fun.

Stay in touch -

Mark