You may have heard that it can be a good thing to offer a little constructive criticism. That may be fine in the workplace, in your golf game or if you're a judge on American Idol. Where it doesn't work so well is with your wife or girlfriend.
Let's be clear on this. Suggestions are good.
Negative remarks, public corrections (especially if you're being critical)...not so much. She's looking for a partner, not a parent.
If this is a constant issue, eventually she will feel self conscious and less comfortable with the relationship. If you have a suggestion, offer it lovingly and be sure to offer more compliments than criticism.
Stay in touch -
Mark
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