Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Learning From Others - Part Deux

Buffalo Springfield. For What It's Worth. "I think it's time we stop now, what's that sound? Everybody look what's going down."
Yesterday I talked about something I heard on a radio talk show. Today I want to continue the theme. This time - about texting.

Here's the scenario. A caller complains that she found suggestive texts on her husband's phone to a young and attractive girls who works for them. "I'm thinking about you tonight.", etc. The caller wonders if she should be concerned. Duh.

Guys, let's face it. It doesn't matter what the format of the communication is - texting, chat rooms, Facebook, email, phone, snail mail or in person - if you're expressing intimate thoughts to another woman, you are asking for trouble. If you're at home with your wife and you are having intimate thoughts about someone you know, you are on a slippery slope. You better "stop" and realize "what's going down." Fix what's going on at home, that would allow you to feel vulnerable enough to be enticed by another woman.

Ah - and please - forget all the bull sh** excuses about how young she makes you feel, or how she let's you know you still have "it". If you have "it", use "it" at home to fix what ever is wrong.

Stay in touch -

Mark

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