5 Ways to Turn Her On!

I originally called this Romantic Ideas, but honestly, I didn't want to scare anyone away. So - let's forget about calling it romance for now. Let's just say here are 5 ways you can turn her on. Go for it.

1. Make a love song music mix CD and take into the bedroom. Go old school with "Let's Get it On" (Marvin Gaye) and "Kiss you All Over" (Exile). "No Ordinary Love" (Sade) is also a good one. If you don't have the means or the skills to make a CD, go buy one.

2. Get some massage oil and offer her a romantic massage. Set this up ahead of time. Clear the schedule to avoid interruptions. Run her a nice bath, give her a nice relaxing soak time and finish it off with a slow full body massage. Yes, sir - I said full body. You're welcome.

3. Get some foot cream and offer to massage her feet after a rough day. Sorry, just the feet. Help her relax and unwind, she'll appreciate it.

4. Dance. What?! Yup, put on that nice CD you made or bought and dim the lights and slow dance, just the two of you.

5. Surprise her with date night. Pick two or three of her favorite things and arrange a night out. Start with dinner or drinks at a place she likes, go to a show, shopping or whatever else she enjoys. Remember how you tried to impress her back when you were trying to get laid? Yeah....like that.

Let me know how it goes.

Stay in touch -

Mark

Valentine's Date Ideas

Guys we have a bit of an advantage again this year, in that Valentine's Day is on a weekend. That opens up a massive list of ideas that involve getting away for the weekend.

If you are going to plan a weekend get-away and you want to surprise her, then please - think of all of the details ahead of time. I'm not talking about the details of the trip (where you're going, where you're staying and what you'll do). Obviously those are important. But I'm thinking about what details may need to be taken care of around the house. (Who is watching the kids and pets?, etc). If you take care of those details, she'll be able to relax and enjoy the romantic weekend, rather than worry about details at home.

Your weekend get-away should include some romantic time - after all, it IS Valentine's Day. Plan a romantic meal, maybe a couple's massage and some romantic intimate time in the room. By romantic intimate I mean - take your time, it's not a race.

If you aren't planning on getting out of town for the weekend, that's ok. There are still plenty of great ideas to make the night special.

A romantic dinner is a must. You can do is Saturday night if you want, then make her breakfast in bed on Sunday morning.

You can go for a couple's massage, or give her a sensual massage at home.

Run a hot bath full of bubbles and sit in it together enjoying each other closely. Light some candles and put on some soft music. She will think she's dreaming.

Make some chocolate dipped strawberries. When you're done, sit by a fire with a couple of glasses of champagne and enjoy.

Whatever you do - celebrate each other!
Stay in touch -

Mark