From Every Mistake We Must Surely Be Learning

Great words from George Harrison's "While My Guitar Gently Weeps."

Great lesson too. I think one of the keys to learning from mistakes, is that we not only learn from our mistakes, but we also learn from the mistakes of others.

Let's start with the basics. What can we learn from Tiger Woods? Right, 18 holes in one day is plenty. Keep your balls out of the rough. Got it.
Seriously though, we can learn that infidelity will destroy you. Do you think anything about Tiger's life will ever be the same? His family is destroyed. His reputation is shot. Even his career has taken a significant hit.
Virtually every aspect of his life has been impacted by his actions. Not to mention the devastating impact on his wife and children.

What can we learn from our best friends or neighbors, who we just heard are getting a divorce? They had a "perfect" marriage didn't they? Clearly not. What went wrong? Complaincency? Boredom? Drifted apart? Infidelity? Instead of peering over the fence to snoop for gossip, why not learn the details and make sure the same thing isn't happening on your side of the fence?

What can we learn from ourselves? What have we done to upset, irritate or disappoint our partner? What really grinds her gears? How have we let her down in the past? Let's take those mistakes and turn them into something positive, by making sure they never happen again. Change our patterns by developing a mindset that says "I don't ever want to let her down again."

This is hard work guys. This is serious stuff. It takes commitment. Let's not blow it.

Stay in touch -

Mark

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